What happens when you miss out?

Three years ago, I was heading into work on a Sunday and thought about stopping to see my grandfather. I was busy and told myself I would visit him another day. Unfortunately, that day never came because he passed away unexpectedly at 96.

Looking back, I could kick myself. I had the chance to spend time with him but put it off.

That experience taught me a lesson I hope others will take to heart: Don’t wait to make time for the people you love.

With the holidays nearly here, families will gather around dinner tables, some traveling from near and far. For lots of people, these celebrations are the few occasions when everyone is sitting together.

Family dynamics have changed. Everyone is so busy and overscheduled, and sometimes months pass without seeing relatives who live nearby.

That’s why I encourage people to make an effort to connect, not just during the holidays but all year long.

Ask questions. Share memories of family members who may no longer be with you. Find out things about your parents and grandparents you never knew. And don’t shy away from meaningful conversations.

Working in the funeral business most of my adult life, I’ve witnessed how quickly life can change. I’ve also learned that the smallest personal connections leave lasting impressions.

Recently, I met with a family whose mother we cared for back in 2020. They were surprised that I remembered details about their family and where they lived. But to me, that’s what this profession is about. 

Orlando-Donsante-Previte Funeral Home is located at 29550 Euclid Avenue in Wickliffe. Visit OrlandoDonsanteFH.com to schedule a pre-planning session with Anthony Previte or call 440-943-2466.